tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2685152641201332954.post3308104292826834378..comments2024-02-07T15:31:14.706+00:00Comments on Lust Bites: For the boys...Madeline Moorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16485601071092171174noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2685152641201332954.post-78127227924962158582006-12-17T00:02:00.000+00:002006-12-17T00:02:00.000+00:00Oh sure, he's still speaking to you, Nikki. In fac...Oh sure, he's still speaking to you, Nikki. In fact, he feels bad because he highjacked your thread at the tank.<br /><br />Kate, you're right. And Nikki did point him to Nexus. <br /><br />Alison pointed to the two sore spots with these guys. Black Lace/Cheek. <br /><br />One side of me wants to go Julia Sugarbaker on these two guys and point how much an advantage men have always held over womenJennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11865904293650242827noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2685152641201332954.post-474441804776377142006-12-13T16:29:00.000+00:002006-12-13T16:29:00.000+00:00Steve, how lovely to have a man about the place!
...Steve, how lovely to have a man about the place!<br /><br />Do join in our crush topic. I think the girls may fall on a man bearing pomegranites...Nikki Magennishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07085757122187578766noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2685152641201332954.post-90642988524042297722006-12-13T16:15:00.000+00:002006-12-13T16:15:00.000+00:00I don't do grapes, but I will occasionally de-seed...I don't do grapes, but I will occasionally de-seed a pomegranite, because I'm a man and poms are much edgier fruits. Here, have a few of the ruby juiced goodies. Sorry about the juice still dripping from my fingertips...<br /><br />I feel like Mathilde's stereotype! I only read erotica written by women, any with one exception, only peruse blogs authored by women. It's a simple as feeling thatStevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14586071427373407485noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2685152641201332954.post-17104652381616081842006-12-13T10:50:00.000+00:002006-12-13T10:50:00.000+00:00Fiona, a topic close to my heart. I went quite har...Fiona, a topic close to my heart. I went quite hard-edged in Asking for Trouble, my second BL novel, and had a central character explicitly state she got off on rape fantasy. She was involved in a relationship which centred on acting out various sleazy, realistic subdom fantasies (ie grubby, everyday scenarios rather than dreary old dungeons and chains). For me, the dynamics of their sexual Kristina Lloydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01260838019243820610noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2685152641201332954.post-67155664982054199552006-12-13T07:42:00.000+00:002006-12-13T07:42:00.000+00:00I know I've rabbited on about this before, but for...I know I've rabbited on about this before, but for me, the best erotica ever was written by a man... the Domino Trilogy and Jennifer's Instruction by Cyrian Amberlake. He wrote female characters who are far more believable to me than those written by most women.Portia Da Costahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03145185188242876124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2685152641201332954.post-44956779023986740992006-12-13T07:11:00.000+00:002006-12-13T07:11:00.000+00:00What really bugs me is the common misconception th...What really bugs me is the common misconception that women like their erotica soft and sweet and 'romantic' - whatever that means. There's often far too much emphasis on mutual pleasure and consent for my tastes. I like my fantasies a little harder-edged and I don't need the reassurance of knowing that the CHARACTERS are consenting. To me that's a big flashing neon light that says 'Remember, Fiona Lockehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01865484855040792648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2685152641201332954.post-90705048452043502532006-12-12T21:54:00.000+00:002006-12-12T21:54:00.000+00:00This is a terrible admission but I don't really li...This is a terrible admission but I don't really like reading stuff by men. Or make that by het men because I've just thought of a couple of notable exceptions.<br /><br />I'm not just talking erotica either. My other big book passion is thrillers and I much prefer female authors there too. In fact, it is said that male readers in general won't read books written by women - I must just have that Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2685152641201332954.post-90094085487322080042006-12-12T21:33:00.000+00:002006-12-12T21:33:00.000+00:00Is it true about men having a difficult time findi...Is it true about men having a difficult time finding placement in erotic collections? Or is this only about Black Lace/Cheek. I think I use as many male writers as female. (And I don't mean "use" in that dirty way.) I'm always happy to include as many points of view as possible in the books I edit. And my all-time favorite five-alarm erotic short story ever was written by a man. It's called Alison Tylerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13587155568248573683noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2685152641201332954.post-35354848165605212792006-12-12T20:10:00.000+00:002006-12-12T20:10:00.000+00:00...and I did point out nexus, didn't I? Erotica ai......and I did point out nexus, didn't I? Erotica aimed at men and with a lot of great male authors. <br /><br />Hmm, perhaps we should link to them...Nikki Magennishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07085757122187578766noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2685152641201332954.post-88066576479877104972006-12-12T20:05:00.000+00:002006-12-12T20:05:00.000+00:00Jenny, sorry to mention the opposition :) -but Ell...Jenny, sorry to mention the opposition :) -but Ellora's Cave have several male authors or erotic romance and erotica!Kate Pearcehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04079485861541059016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2685152641201332954.post-14383373340777192592006-12-12T19:34:00.001+00:002006-12-12T19:34:00.001+00:00..and I do look forward to meeting Valentino, Wend.....and I do look forward to meeting Valentino, Wendy!Nikki Magennishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07085757122187578766noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2685152641201332954.post-26420718583395532982006-12-12T19:34:00.000+00:002006-12-12T19:34:00.000+00:00Hey Jenny! Lovely to see you here.
I'd love to ge...Hey Jenny! Lovely to see you here.<br /><br />I'd love to get our mutual friend in here (perhaps as a guest. We'd be *ever* so friendly). And discuss. Is it really a woman's world - Planet Erotica? We set up this blog precisely to stimulate this kind of chat. <br /><br />Not sure he's speaking to me right now, but perhaps you could extend a very warm invite to him to come along and blow off steamNikki Magennishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07085757122187578766noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2685152641201332954.post-49761898803244871122006-12-12T18:43:00.000+00:002006-12-12T18:43:00.000+00:00I know a guy who sometimes likes to don a crimson ...I know a guy who sometimes likes to don a crimson lamé dress and a bit of lippy... <br /><br />No, goshdarnit, wait, he only lives in my imagination at the moment, doesn't he?<br /><br />You'll have to wait until next June to meet him... he's very pretty and he loves eyeliner... but nix on the squeaky voice. <br /><br />His name is Valentino...Portia Da Costahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03145185188242876124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2685152641201332954.post-1865692184875208932006-12-12T18:32:00.000+00:002006-12-12T18:32:00.000+00:00Edit: I meant to say both men and women instead of...Edit: I meant to say both men and women instead of both women...Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11865904293650242827noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2685152641201332954.post-64920115076884084632006-12-12T18:31:00.000+00:002006-12-12T18:31:00.000+00:00Ahh Nikki! I hope you managed to soothe the savage...Ahh Nikki! I hope you managed to soothe the savage beasts. I think the waiting on us hand and foot thing is a wonderful idea. <br /><br />However, I don't think that's what they were looking for. <br /><br />Here's the gripe as presented to me from you-know-who. <br /><br />He's an excellent writer and has a gift for eroticism. He's very open minded and in tune with women and their needs. And, noJennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11865904293650242827noreply@blogger.com